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5 Ways to Improve the Parent-Child Relationship


Aradhana Pandey

Aradhana Pandey

This post has been contributed by Aradhana Pandey. Aradhana is a veteran writer on topics concerning parenting, child nutrition, wellness, health and lifestyle. As a regular contributor to popular sites like Huffington Post, Natural News, Elephant Journal, Thehealthsite, Naturally Savvy, Curejoy and MomJunction.com, Aradhana writes to inspire and motivate people to adopt healthy habits and live a stress-free lifestyle.

 

 

Human relationships are extremely delicate. They need a lot of nurturing, patience and care lest they get strained and shatter. The relationship between parents and their children is no different. There’s a lot that it takes for us parents to ensure that we impart good values to our kids while also maintaining a friendly connection with them. The modern times have kids facing such an increased impact of technology misuse, drug abuse and other dangers that we parents can’t help but feel protective towards our children. This protective instinct, can, however, be misconstrued by kids who may think that you’re stifling their freedom. It can even create a rift in the relationship you share with them. To avoid such a situation, you need to get the basics right and create the right balance in your parenting style.  Here are five ways to improve the relationship you and your child share:

  1. Maintain A Two-Way Communication – One of the most important aspects of a healthy relationship is open communication. While you communicate your thoughts and concerns to your child, don’t disregard his point of view. It is essential for you to make your child believe that you are approachable and can intently listen to what he has to say, instead of imposing your ideologies on him. Doing this will make him a lot more comfortable around you and help him know that his needs matter to you.
  1. Give Quality Time To Your Family – Lack of time for each other is the primary cause for a lot of estranged relationships, parent and child included. Make sure that you set clear cut priorities in life and keep your family on the top of that list. Find enough time to make some lasting memories with your family, whether it is by going on picnics together, watching movies together or even playing a board game together. Remember, it’s not the expensive gifts, but your presence and the lovely little moments you share with your child that matter most to him!
  1. Cook And Eat Together – Another way you can get a chance to bond with your child is by cooking and eating together. Both these activities provide a great opportunity for making conversations, sharing updates about each other’s day and having a lot of fun together. It’s not for nothing that the maxim, “A family that eats together, stays together” is famous since time immemorial.
  1. Respect Your Kid And His Interests – All parents have dreams and aspirations for their kids and you must too! But, it is crucial that you understand that every kid is different, and so are his interests and aptitude. You should respect that and encourage him, rather than forcing him to pursue something that he has no inclination or knack for. Being extremely controlling can either make your kid very meek or highly rebellious, both of which are not the kind of behavioral traits you want him to grow up with.
  1. Trust Your Kid’s Capabilities – Trust is yet another area that can either make or break relationships depending on the presence or the lack of it. Sure, you want to protect your child from the downfalls that come along the journey called life, but being extremely finicky and restrictive can make your kid very crabby and disgruntled. It can even make him excessively dependent and vulnerable, thus, making it harder for him to cope with situations and people as he grows up. It is, therefore, important, that you loosen the tight grip on your kid’s life and trust his ability to find his foothold. That said, you must also monitor your child’s actions and behavior regularly so that you are aware of the subsequent consequences involved.

There’s no denying the fact that we parents want the best for our child; what’s important is helping our children understand and believe the same. Make sure you are highly encouraging and receptive to your child’s interests and needs. Instead of using force and admonition to bring your child on the right path, adopt a communicative and friendly way. Doing this not just helps your child understand things better, but it also makes him trust you with his inhibitions and aspirations. Here’s to a lifetime of beautiful memories with your kid!

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ParentEdge is a bi-monthly magazine for discerning Indian parents who would like to actively contribute to their children’s education, intellectual enrichment and stimulation. The magazine’s premise is that learning is a continuous process, and needs to happen both in and outside of school; thus parents have an important role to play in shaping their children’s interests and intellect.


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