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Are we Afraid of Diversity?


This blog post has been contributed by Deepa Garwa.

“Mom, look at those kids, they don’t want Aarshia to play with them.” My son shook my arm while I was blissfully enjoying my book by the pool in Goa. We were on a vacation and my son and daughter were playing in and around the pool, and I was happily engrossed in my book. I am used to this behaviour where children feel my daughter would get hurt or she would not be able to cope up with their games and rules, so they generally decide it is best for all the parties if she doesn’t play. Sometimes I insist but sometimes I just let it go, like this time and I asked my son to play with her instead. After they both got busy playing, I looked at the other mothers who were looking at my daughter and talking in hushed tones, may be trying to figure out what is wrong with her. I closed the book and started thinking that if this generation is still not sensitive towards children with disabilities then there is a strong possibility we are pushing away the dream of a sensitized world by a hundred more years.

I tried thinking of the reason why we as a society are so averse to changes and anything that is unfamiliar. The truth is we don’t believe in changing the age old worn out traditions and beliefs that have no place in today’s day and time. While we keep talking about unity in diversity and other such popular terms every day, the truth is completely different. Deep inside we all are afraid and very uncomfortable of any idea, person, thought or thing that we don’t find familiar. The stigma associated with special needs, homosexuality, people from other regions or religions, has the same root cause. Theoretically we are a country of diversity, we speak over seven hundred languages and ours is one of the most religiously diverse nations but when it comes to the stigmas associated with things beyond ones’ control, we are probably ahead of all.

And these are not common normal issues; we have strong convictions against anything that doesn’t fall within our so-called realm of Indian familiarity. We as a society have always been unappreciative of diversity. If thought through carefully, this is one of the major reasons why intellectual disabilities are still considered fearsome and the people affected with it, aliens! We fear what we don’t know and while the knowledge helps us understand, the problem is we don’t want to learn or know. We see everything as black and white, right and wrong, even if there is a spectrum of colours for us to explore.

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5 thoughts on “Are we Afraid of Diversity?

  1. Ignatius Fernandez

    Deepa, I hope your article will rouse people from their forced slumber – shutting their eyes to the problems of others. You are not alone in finding people insensitive. We see it daily. And you are right – not even in 100 years will things change significantly, because selfishness and indifference are so common, that it is pleasant surprise to find a few who behave differently. Those few (and you are one among them), will have to work extra hard to make a difference. God bless. Ignatius.

    http://www.ignatiusfernandez.com

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  2. Swati Nitin Gupta

    Beautifully expressed Deepa! I get overwhelmed with emotions when I see specially-abled or differently abled kids ( I am sorry I don’t prefer to use the word disability because I believe that these kids are way smarter than their peers, talk to them and you will know what I mean and I am sure as a mother of special needs daughter you would know what I am talking about). Deepa I would like to connect with you on a personal level and would to hear about your daughter more. If you don’t mind of course and in the meantime I would like to share your post with my readers!

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