Each child is unique. Some are born organizers and can manage a plethora of activities with élan. Others are slowpokes who prefer to take things at a leisurely pace. Do not make rules for your child based on what others are doing. Talk to them often about what they are doing. Encourage the child when she relates little incidents that have happened during the day.
A child is like a rough stone. Carved delicately, she will turn into a wondrous being. Hit it too hard and she may disintegrate into numerous worthless shards.