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Role Reversal


                            Not so recently, my son, who is a first year undergrad student, had come home during his school break, and I showed him something I had written and asked for his feedback. He went through it and gave me a lot of detailed suggestions for improvement, while adding (perhaps to soften the impact) that the content was all there. All the points he put forth were valid ( courtesy a superb writing course he was doing at college) and I immediately agreed to take them into consideration.

childstudent                          This morning, again, he asked me over a chat- do you post your blogs as soon as you write them? I said- sometimes yes and sometimes no, but why do you ask? ” I read your recent one and found a couple of punctuations missing; you know what, it is a good idea to leave what you write for a bit and then go back to it- you will find some mistakes that you can rectify!” I smiled to myself; not so long ago, I was the one giving such sage advice and he was at the receiving end, as he was writing his essays for his college admissions. Lesson learned- kids grow up fast; and before you know it, it is time for a role reversal :) . If parents can accept this as a natural progression in the relationship, then it can actually be quite fun. Do you have any similar experiences to share?

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Sudha Kumar is a marketing professional and runs a marketing services firm, Prayag Consulting. She has made her foray into publishing through ParentEdge. Over the last two decades, she has learnt a thing or two about being a working mom. That said, her views on parenting continue to evolve, as she learns from her experiences, reading, and now, from her children!


2 thoughts on “Role Reversal

  1. pallavi

    Lots of memories came back. Thank you so much.

    Am at a stage when me as a daughter have stepped into few of the roles which were ably carried out by my parents. This slow transition has been very challenging and humbling at the same time.
    Today I find myself standing at a juncture where I have taken over from my parents, while I watch my daughter grow into an individual who can do so many things in a better way showing me a new perspective to life.
    Its such great feeling.

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  2. Jaya

    That is an interesting insight. It is hard in such situations not to let the stereo typical parental attitude take over and do a parental comeback. The word ‘Parenting’ has such a one way connotation to it i.e. from the parent to the child. Maybe we should use a new word like Intergenerational Learning – to imply a more reciprocal relationship. Perhaps someone might coin a better word.

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